Fears of Change

Change is not always comfortable, Sometimes we even think of change as scary. When you are more adventurous, change is exciting! How many ways have you misidentified and misapplied your excitement as fear? Everything that is, will you uncreate and destroy it all? POC POD (Go to www.theclearingstatement.com for a detailed explanation of the Access® Clearing Statement by Dr. Dain Heer.) Do you remember being so excited to do something as a child and your mother or another adult warned you not to scared? That is where many of us got stuck with yuck around excitement.

Children are innately curious and filled with wonder over the simplest things. Change for them is this amazing adventure that they cannot wait to embark upon. Then some well-meaning adult feels it is their responsibility to suck the joy and excitement right out the delicious unknown! Do you recall such childhood experiences? Can we uncreate and destroy all of those reference points and stratifications with other’s points of views?  POC POD
    What if change is the elixir of life that keeps you stimulated and growing? Imagine how mundane life would become without change? What if you lived your life always following the energy of what was light, never actually knowing where you were going or what was going to happen next? Can you imagine how much more fun and exciting your days would be? Choosing an unknown based on whether it “lights you up” is the ultimate of trust and awareness. You are living beyond fear.
    If you are a control freak, this conversation is probably igniting all kinds of discomfort. Have you ever paused to ask yourself what it is that you are afraid is going to happen if you were to relinquish your well kept control over everyone and everything in your world? I would like to invite you to that fear that keeps you running back to the safety of your reference points and stratifications with your fellow control freaks.  Instead, would you be willing to lean into that wall of fear?
    Let’s do a simple exercise to get you started. First, expand yourself out- keep going until you have reached around the earth and are one with the molecules. Now expand out another 1000 miles in all directions, 360 degrees spherical.  You should be feeling very spacious and light. This is infinite you. Next I want you to get the energy of your greatest fear if you gave up control. Say “hi” and just be with your fears without any point of view. Gently expand into your fears, melting them. Say “everything is the opposite of what it appears to be and nothing is the opposite of what it appears to be” as many times as it takes to feel the wall of fear breaking apart and dissolving. Now expand into it even more, just gently melting any resistance, saying “hi” and being with shift that is clearing. Soon your wall will dissipate and release back to the universe. You will now have the space and lightness of what is actually possible when you are in allowance of the unknown possibilities of change. You might even feel a little excitement and joy creeping in!  I invite you to play with this everywhere you stop yourself based on a fear and the need to control. It is just a choice.